Condition by which people psychologically hurt others to help them?

Does anyone know the name for the psychological condition by which people hurt others (verbally and emotionally) so that they can help them? I know of two people who seem conflicted in how they treat people. They want the worst for people and almost seem pleased when the other person is hurt or fails. But in the same instance, they want to help the person who they just hurt.

This is a very good question, and is common, I am sure, but with HUGE varying degrees of such abuse. Psychological abuse is far more devastating than physical abuse, especially if sustained for long periods of time , that’s what conditioning is all about, it changes the way the abused views almost everything, so completely..(I saw on TV that it scars someone severely forever) Societal and even family dynamics also play a large role in this, peoples need to control, for whatever motive, or sickness. Look at the child-abuser that ends up abusing. Some people who experience loss, want others too also. People who cannot have kids, find other ways of coping with this loss. Also, jealousy, which you touched upon, is an issue. There are SO many factors that influence the ways others act. It is usually a patterned and planned , secretive and usually subtle behavior too, the cycle of abuse, but you covered it all. It is always, as you said, justified in some fashion though, or denied (*), by the accused, or the accuser is labeled as just plain crazy (*If the abuse is done in a more secretive way-which just buttresses not only the intent of the instigator the extreme wish perpetuate this abuse-but also shows the gravity of its severity and sickness-AND by its denial in itself of some by the facts that can be pointed to in regards to this abuse, is the admission, to at least themsleves, that it is known what is being done is wrong, particularly if the accused is confronted over and over on the issue and the issue is not alleviated), Very sad really. Stay away from people like this. Also look up Munchausens (sp) and Stockholm syndrome in relation to these sad states of peoples psyche. And if you have personally suffered from this occurence, and are aware enough of most all of the aspects of its detriment to post of it…don’t let it effect the way YOU treat people (in the same way-abuse) , because that would not leave room for excuse, or forgiveness.

Feels like contractions?

I think its me ovulating, but it feels just like the contractions i had when i was in labor with my children.
Severe pain, takes my breath away, doubled over, unable to function, etc. You know what i mean if you’ve had a baby.
It happens almost every month. Lasts 1-3 hours. And the cramps come in about 5-7 minute intervals.
It happened just this past saturday. And I’ve felt sore since.(now wednesday)
This cant be normal can it?
What would a doctor do to treat something like this? Would they treat it at all?

it sounds like a ovarian cyst. they will have to do an ultrasound to see whats going on in there. unless the hpv caused the cyst i can’t imagine that would be the cause of the pain itself. ovulating can be sore but, it isn’t suppose to be that sore. if it is a cyst they can remove it. but definatly get to the doctor and have it checked out. good luck to you